This past week, I was in northwest Indiana visiting my sister. On this past Sunday, I received a rather frantic call from my husband saying that our neighbor's three pit bulls had broken through the fence and were in the kennel with our two dogs. All three pit bulls were attacking our border collie, Max. Max was doing his best to fight them off. Animal control was called, neighbors came to help...it was a scary situation. I was in Indiana...nothing I could do but pray.
As bad as the situation was, the outcome was good. Max was OK for just having a 3 on 1 fight. He is a scrapper for sure! Except for a little swelling and occasional limp on his front left leg, you would not know anything had happened. We were very worried about what this might do with our relationship to this particular neighbor. They actually live in back of us so we had never met them. Our relationships with our neighbors are very important to us and we work very hard to keep them good. My hubby and I prayed Sunday and all day Monday for this situation. On Monday evening, my hubby received a knock on the door - it was our neighbor! My hubby welcomed her and her two daughters into our home. He assured her kindly that we held no anger toward their family and would love to reconcile the situation. She asked if he would be willing to lessen the charge on their dogs to help them to be able to pay the fine. He said he would be happy to do anything to help. Our neighbor was very grateful. We are thankful the Lord answered our prayers to reconcile with this neighbor! We are sure this is a step to a friendship with this lady and her family.
What would have happened if my husband would have handled this situation differently? He had every right to place the blame on her dogs and be angry for the injustice of this situation. This attitude would not have helped the situation or made friends with our neighbor.
There are many situations every day that we may come across...that though we might feel that we are in the right...we can change these situations and the attitudes of those involved. A cranky cashier at Wal-Mart...a waitress who didn't take your order right away...a driver that cut you off on the freeway...a doctor or office who didn't return your call right away...a customer service rep that wasn't very helpful. I could go on and on. Why do we feel that we are always the victim and then we have "the right" to take justice in our own hands? I despise that attitude.
Today, I challenge you to take the high road! Stop the victim attitude...stop the "I have the right to act this way" attitude! I guarantee that when you do...you will have the greatest feeling in your heart! There is nothing like it.
What was that statement that became popular several years ago? What Would Jesus Do? We won't use that statement because we can't live by it.
So, today, take the high road! If the waitress is late taking your order, double your tip. If someone purposely cuts in front of you, let them! Instead of the customer service rep being the friendliest, you be the friendliest! You will be amazed at how it makes you feel! Let God use you every day to be an example for His work!